The Paradox of Loneliness
Loneliness is a complex emotional state that can be both sought after and imposed. Understanding its roots and recognizing the multifaceted nature of loneliness is helpful. Embracing the idea that loneliness is not an inherent trait, but a transient state is relevant in initiating a transformative journey.
The Silent Voice of Sadness
Life is an adventure that is constantly moving and evolving, full of twists and turns, highs and lows, and as we navigate its various phases, our life circumstances often undergo significant changes. While change is a natural part of life, it can sometimes become a silent catalyst for mental health issues such as depression, anxiety and other mental health problems.
Midlife Crisis
For some time now, I have been thinking about the meaning, and impact, of midlife crisis. Is this an emotional state, a physical/hormonal state, or perhaps both? How do these combine? This article is not a study of biology, but it does highlight the importance of the interaction between mind and body, and how they affect each other.
Where do I Belong?
I recently participated in an online teleconference with a group of young people who have been living an expatriate life for some time. The focus of the conversation centred on the theme of 'belonging' and its meaning. Questions such as where do I belong, what do I belong to, what does home mean and where do we anchor our belonging in this world emerged as the common denominator.
Loss, Hope and Growth
COVID-19 has added an extra element of turbulence to our already busy lives. In my mind an image emerged that projected a world that seemed to have (almost) come to a standstill due to the pandemic. Life, as we knew it, was somewhat paralysed and, if not totally, at least slowed down and diverted by unexpected changes that certainly evoke different levels of uncertainty, anguish, fear and anger, among others. I thought it would be interesting to reflect on this situation and its possible implications depending on the 'stage of life' we are in and how 'hard' this situation 'hits' each of us.
React or Respond
Why do we sometimes feel that an emotion can take control of our lives in such a way that it inhibits our ability to think, affecting our behaviour and even our bodily functions? The aim of this short article is to try to shed some light on how to control our emotions in the framework of the never-ending internal dispute regarding how we react and/or respond to internal and/or external stimuli.
The 'Lasso' Effect
Remember those cowboy movies in which the 'youngsters' would appear on their beautiful, powerful steeds and spin their lasso in the air above their heads? If successful, they would jump off their horse and quickly overpower the steer. The animal would lie on the ground with its legs securely tied, feeling momentarily helpless as it was unable to move, let alone get up.
How Sweet it is to Mature
As I walked my now old dog Elvis, I caught myself thinking about what a wonderful experience it has been to receive true and unconditional love from him. I began to reflect on what, apart from the blessing of having him with me for a little over 14 years, I have learned from this special relationship.
Talking About Daydreaming
All our lives we are told to focus, concentrate and stay on the task. This is definitely a good advice and, those who follow it, probably feel they are very responsible and even successful people. And perhaps they are.
Discovering Our Identity
I must admit that writing the first article on my blog has been quite a challenge as I wanted it to be special, or at least different from what I usually read elsewhere on the Internet. I promised that my version will be different simply because it emanates from my own uniqueness. This realisation inspired me to write on the theme of 'Identity'.